It is what it is!!

For the most part, I am OK. I guess what we had come to us was going To happen sooner or later. I guess the sooner won the battle!!! I know I made mistakes, and I know that I have faults but I didn't expect it to be this soon. Maybe I do deserve everything I get. 

why me, yet again...

I have learned that by trying to help people with relationship issues that I may or may not be able to help with, is not a good thing to do. I try and I try to be the good person, but no matter how much I do, it never works out the way I want it to. Yes, I misheard what was said, and yes I misunderstood with what was said and would be the reason that I messaged what I did, but is that a reason to block and delete me from Facebook and every other social media just because I made one mistake.I apologized but it seems that in this day and age, apologies don't count, and once a person is already mad, they don't care if u say sorry or not, and it doesn't matter how many times they say sorry, that other person is going to stay pissed off and mad for a long time. Both parties were hurt, but why should I be the one that takes the brunt of the whole situation....

I have come to realize that no matter how much I want to help people if they aren't willing to accept that they are wrong and that someone is doing this and giving them advice because they care then its not worth helping them. If the can't take criticism, and understand where I was coming from, then whats the point in trying at all...

I just want people to get along. To love each other and to be the way that they are supposed to. To treat each other fairly and with respect. No one expects me to be right all the time, but I would have rather had a "thank you for your input and I appreciate your concern but I will sort this out with my partner on my own" not act like a 12-year-old, and delete and block me without talking about it, or telling me that they were upset with what I had said. No communication equals no real help and misjudgment on my part. 

All I can say is that I am truly sorry and that I was only genuinely trying to help because I want their marriage to work and I want them to be happy. I just did it because I hate seeing my friends upset, and I know that apologies aren't enough because nothing ever is, but just know that I never meant it to be nasty.