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Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Bullies...and how they think!

Ever been to school, and had some girl or guy call you names, or throw stuff at your head and think it's funny? People like this are mainly those that have never been brought up with manners. They think its funny to make fun of someone that is less fortunate than them. Whether it be for ethnic origin, color, height, looks, accent, mannerisms, sexual orientation etc..I mean the list goes on.
I don't see how people can live with themselves ridiculing other people just because they want to get a laugh out of it. Some may just be pushed into bushes, or tied to trees naked, or have lunch money stolen from them, or even have food rubbed into their hair, or called certain names and ridiculed for things that they do. These people don't think about the consequences that fall upon them or the other person's feelings. They may just be with the wrong crowd and learned the wrong way, but it never makes it right. I don't see how someone can get a kick out of upsetting someone else...This is why I would never hurt anyone's feelings. At least not on purpose or deliberately. 

I got bullied when I was 11 years old. I got food thrown at me, I was pushed down the stairs, kicked, thumped, banana skins rubbed in my hair, and all they did was laugh and walk off. At this point because I didn't retaliate, they thought they had won. That they could do anything and I would just stand there and take it, but what else could I do? They may be 13 years old, or 17 years old but they have the mindset of 5. They are still children, messing around, not taking into consideration anyone's feelings apart from their own. Those people tended to be the ones that turned out to be two-faced. One min they are bullying me and then 8 years later they want to be my friend and add me on facebook. Somehow suspicious, but me thinking they had grown up after school must have been a miss conception. Why people think that they can say horrible things to other people, especially MY friends is beyond me. And then THEY go after me for it because I'm trying to support and back up my friends that these bullies are tormenting. Why put all your time and effort into trolling and making other peoples lives hell? And for what? A quick laugh? Because u won't be thinking that as soon as one of the people that you bully ends up taking his or her life because of YOU!

Life is full of risks. If you don't take one, you'll never know what lies ahead. Sometimes it's worth taking a risk, knowing it will make you happy in the long run. Be prepared for everything life throws at you. It can be tough at times, but know there are people out there that will listen, that DO care and that want to help and won't leave you. You have to believe and take the risk that those people won't leave u or hurt you. Sometimes life doesn't work out the way we had planned it to, but then there would be no surprises, and it would be so boring. Love Life and love yourself!

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