Something to think about in my opinion

1)
How can u live your life everyday
knowing your unhappy?

2)
how can u wake up every morning
knowing that u get hurt all the time?

3)
how can u let someone control you
knowing you will never be able to see your friends?

4)
how can u live with yourself
believing everyone's lies?

5)
How can u trust anyone
knowing what happened in the past?

6)
How can you go to work
knowing your children could be in danger?

7)
How do you cope
falling in love with someone else, and them loving you back but u can't be together?

These are all questions that alot of us ask ourselves but cannot seem to come up with a valid answer. Life is hard and we deal with it as it comes. You cannot really prepare for what lies ahead. If it happens it happens. But you could prevent them from happening. Sometimes you have to take risks. You have to have enough trust in yourself that whatever you do will work out one way or another. You have to believe that you are strong enough to get through whatever is thrown at you, no matter how hard. Sometimes taking away the main cause of the problem, can change the situation, but sometimes not for the better but for the worse. Sometimes we are scared to take the risk, knowing that we may lose everything, and a lot of the time we just plough through life as if nothing is wrong, when we know deep inside that we are falling apart, but I believe that if you really want something you go for it. There is a consequence for everything in life, and for everything that we do but I can't see the point in trying to live my life and not be happy. It's like your living a lie, whether its doing a job you don't like, just because you have been told that u have to stick with it by parents who think that this is the best thing for you because it gives money (and yes money is good but it doesn't buy you happiness), or whether its living with someone that you used to get on with or love, but there's nothing there anymore, yet there are now other people involved that will bear the consequences if you left or changed the situation and yes life can be complicated. No one ever said it was going to be easy..

We never want to hurt anyone, because it's not in our nature to, BUT in the other sense, we should be putting OURSELVES first for a change and thinking about what WE want, how WE feel, and what makes US happy, not what the other person wants all the time. We can have a job that we hate..and believe me I've had my fair share, and I know at the end of the day a job is a job and it's money!. BUT saying that...I do feel that you should work somewhere where you are going to WANT to wake up early every morning, and WANT to go to work because you enjoy it, rather than having to Force yourself to get up to earn the same amount of money. And everyone knows that there aren't many places that people WANT to work at that they can. I'd rather see a real smile from someone if I was a manager or a colleague working in a company, than to see someone that's putting on a brave face because they don't really want to be there, and end up getting fired a week later because they are not putting the effort in. Wouldn't u rather work somewhere where u KNOW you are going to work 100% anyway, regardless of the money...because you enjoy being there, and you enjoy what you do?..I would!!