what's going on with me

Well lets try this again. I wrote a blog yesterday and it didn't sent or post so I was very pissed off to say the least. I haven't been online for a while so I haven't been able to write a new blog so here is an update of whats new with me..

Husband has graduated from 'IT' A school 'yay' but he still hasn't come back yet. Has been in Pensacola, FL for nearly 4 months and I'm in Norfolk, Va right now. He was waiting on orders and I didn't know whats going but he is now coming back in the next few weeks but I'm still stuck at home and everything is still all up in the air..
I am cat sitting right now for a girl who was on the same ship as my husband. She has gone to school too but the cat is causing havoc and there is only so much that I can do. He likes to scratch up the carpet. Now I have put the scratch pad near where he always does it, yet he doesn't ever use it, and I keep getting grilled at from Chris saying oh so now we're gonna have to pay for a new carpet, as if its my fault that the cat is clawing up the carpet. I have done everything I can to stop the cat from doing it, and most of the time he only does it when I'm out, so i'm not going to say to chris i'm never gonna go out for 4 months just so the cat won't claw the carpet coz i'll go insane. I've had to try to go out as often as I can with my friends so I don't feel cooped up and depressed...

Its so stressful. I've still gotta sort my permanent residency stuff out, and my apartment is a complete mess..
Money is another issue..I keep saying to husband that i can't always ask my parents because they are giving me like $700 every month and they are supposed to have retired..and because he can't give me any money having to pay for everything over there I have to, but it seems very one sided. But when I say to him i can't keep asking them for money and he says yeah i know i understand, i don't really think he does Really UNDERSTAND..and it gets frustrating because its like he blocks out the things he doesn't want to hear and lets through the things he does. So nothing ever gets done! And it always ends up in an argument and I don't wanna HAVE to shout at my husband but sometimes it just has to be done even if I do love him he does piss me the fuck off sometimes...And because I don't drive or work or anything because I'm not allowed to, its harder for me to do things. I mean I'd babysit friends children but its finding anyone that would be willing to pay me to do it. That's another reason why I haven't been on wire much as Ive been so busy trying to sort shit out!!

Also I've had people threatening me telling me who I can and can't talk to. I mean some people really have to grow up because I am sick of the Drama...They can't tell me what to do, and neither can they tell their friends or their husbands or bf's who they can and can't talk to. I think its pathetic!!

And also people on Facebook that think they can delete me and not give me a reason so I'm stuck there thinking wtf is going on and what did i do? Ahh well shit happens...
I got my lip pierced about 6 weeks ago. It's still healing but I may need to change the hoops too smaller 14 gauge hoops as the ones I have in are still 14's but they are huge..and again it costs money. So I may need to wait a while for that. I hope it looks cute in the end and at some point I do want my tongue pierced but that may be a long while yet because or money and I wanna make sure that my lip is fully healed before hand.

Anyway that's enough for now...I'll add more at a later date. Just a quick update as to whats going on with me