A friend in need is a friend Indeed. Or just maybe for life :)

I can remember this day like It was yesterday. I was online browsing the Internet like I always do.  I cannot remember if it was Craigslist or Facebook but either way, I came upon chatting to this amazing woman.  We were both Navy wives, and wanting new friends but 4 years later, I didn't imagine that we would be the best of friends and have so much fun together and be as close as we are and I wouldn't take any of it back. Who is his woman I hear u say? Well her name is Laura Weiller. I remember the funny times When we would hang out and she would drive around different places in her truck.  I remember listening to Avril Lavigne and hearing some lyrics I thought were a little strange and I had asked her to listen to.  Sure enough, we both heard the same lyric which was what sounded like.. 'I'm on Crack...'
We both 'cracked'  up no pun intended.  The way we would drive in circles after a tall man on a little scooter. Which I know u might think sounds weird well it looked even weirder in person and we had to get a closer look.  The baggy pants on the tattoo guy and I just wanted to wedgie him and pull them back up and laughing and trying to take pictures of people dressed as Scooby-Doo.
Our adventures would be never ending. We danced down Isles in Walmart,  made funny YouTube videos and played with light sabers in Michaels. Boy, that was so much fun.  The one time I will never forget is the time we drove from Greenbriar mall and we were stuck at a red light,  minding our own business when suddenly a guy on a penny farthing cycled across the road. LOL

I remember the time when we would go to golden corral and I would eat random things and she would video or she and her husband would make me say fluffy bunny with a mouth full of ice cream, pickles, hot sauce and caramel. I also remember when we went to Cici's pizza and I pretended to eat the food like a dog and made the nom sound like a dog does put my face near the bowl and u thought something was terribly wrong with me and was about to call someone lol.
And the time when u started to serve ice cream and I asked u "what are you doing" and u said I'm cutting the ice cream. I said "with a spoon?" .. And all the funny videos we would make.. 'I'm eating from a bowl any with a soon nay'  and 'I like to turn'. Inside joke....
The time when u drank your special tea and drew a heart man on the top of my arm. With a moose tache.
The way we would make sexual innuendoes on pretty much everything.. Especially some chairs in VA Beach or having Std pillows.
Laura was always someone I could go to if I was pissed off or upset and she would just listen.  Regardless to whether she agreed or not,  she was always there for me and that's what mattered. I've had friends where I could know them for a long period of time and suddenly they don't care about me anymore.  Almost like those 20 years were just a waste of time but my friendship with this woman is everlasting and she means a lot to me. 
Laura,  Your the best friend anyone could Ask for and I love u with all my heart. Both u and Drew are like family to me.  The past 4 years for me hanging with u and knowing u have been some of the best years of my life.  I hope to continue on that path.  Girl u rock. And I hope all the best for u.

Upset..

Should I be upset? Should I be angry? The one time when my parents send me money and are actually happy to send it to me because it's for my birthday, and I end up having to pay the cell phone bill with it because my husband couldn't be bothered to keep up with the payments and got the phones cut off.  He is the only one that works so he earns the Income.. He has enough to pay the bill every month so there's no excuse as to why it was not done and suddenly they cut us off,  a few days before my birthday and I have to pay the outstanding to get it reconnected.  I shouldn't have to use money my parents wanted to give ME to pay something that my husband is responsible for.. My parents send us money constantly to pay bills and they are both retired.  They are giving me money from their retirement fund for my birthday and expect me to get something nice with it.  I bought an ipod touch because I had found one for a good cheap price and wanted one for a long time so I can facetime people instead of carrying my ipad with me everywhere.. So I was happy with that but the rest I was gonna use to have a nice meal,  go maybe buy some clothes,  new shoes get my hair cut,  massage etc . Pamper myself.. But now I can't do any of that and it's almost like my birthday was ruined.. Because I had all these plans set out for what I was going to do on my birthday..
My husband needs to think what if my parents didn't send me any money... The cell phone would still be cut off and he would have to wait a full week before he could pay the bill anyway, So what's the difference?? It's almost like he is using me and my parents for money.. Or spending it on things he should be up keeping and making sure they are paid and not put into overdue...
And what's worse is the next bill is already due on April 3rd so who knows if it will get cut off again then even though we paid the outstanding.. And he can't ask me to pay for it cos I won't have any money..