Upset..

Should I be upset? Should I be angry? The one time when my parents send me money and are actually happy to send it to me because it's for my birthday, and I end up having to pay the cell phone bill with it because my husband couldn't be bothered to keep up with the payments and got the phones cut off.  He is the only one that works so he earns the Income.. He has enough to pay the bill every month so there's no excuse as to why it was not done and suddenly they cut us off,  a few days before my birthday and I have to pay the outstanding to get it reconnected.  I shouldn't have to use money my parents wanted to give ME to pay something that my husband is responsible for.. My parents send us money constantly to pay bills and they are both retired.  They are giving me money from their retirement fund for my birthday and expect me to get something nice with it.  I bought an ipod touch because I had found one for a good cheap price and wanted one for a long time so I can facetime people instead of carrying my ipad with me everywhere.. So I was happy with that but the rest I was gonna use to have a nice meal,  go maybe buy some clothes,  new shoes get my hair cut,  massage etc . Pamper myself.. But now I can't do any of that and it's almost like my birthday was ruined.. Because I had all these plans set out for what I was going to do on my birthday..
My husband needs to think what if my parents didn't send me any money... The cell phone would still be cut off and he would have to wait a full week before he could pay the bill anyway, So what's the difference?? It's almost like he is using me and my parents for money.. Or spending it on things he should be up keeping and making sure they are paid and not put into overdue...
And what's worse is the next bill is already due on April 3rd so who knows if it will get cut off again then even though we paid the outstanding.. And he can't ask me to pay for it cos I won't have any money..