once upon a dream

Have you ever felt like your lost or alone? That problem keeps coming your way and that nothing you do seems to resolve the issues at hand? Do you feel like you try so hard to please someone else, but you get nothing back in return?...
Sometimes other people will look at you and say, 'hey your life isn't that bad, stop making it out to be something worse than it is'. For those people who don't really know what is going on, try stepping into their shoes for a while and living their life with their husband or wife, and THEN they will have a better understanding as to why their friend is complaining so much. Maybe there IS a reason to complain.
Why is it that a lot of people are so two-faced? And just because they take something they don't like and take it personally. The way I see it is that if you are going to be someone's friend, be their friend, and not their enemy. Don't let yourself become the victim. Don't let people control you. It is your life and you live it how you wish to. When someone is happy with their own life, it has an impact on those around them, and in the things that they do. And always BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!!..In life, you can do anything you wish to if you put your mind to it. Never say 'I can't' do something. 'I can't' makes you sound like a weak person when you know that deep inside you CAN do anything and that there isn't a can't if you have never tried it.

Everything happens for a reason. Life isn't about wanting or having, but being happy with the person that you are, and when you feel down, just remind yourself of this fact. Sometimes reasons aren't as clear as we wish them to be. Sometimes we just wish things weren't complicated. Follow your heart. If it tells you something is right, then it's right. Sometimes we follow our head, and make the decision against what our heart was telling us to do, but it can also be the wrong decision to make.

If you love someone, you will do whatever it takes to make them happy. But sometimes, it feels like that is never enough. When you meet someone new, either a relationship or just a friendship, hold on to them. Remember that they came into your life for a reason. Think about how that person makes you feel. Do you feel yourself around them? If so...doesnot that make you think that life would be good with that person. You want to feel comfortable around your Gf/bf/spouse. Do you want to be able to do things freely without having the other question your every move as if they have a right to your life? Yes, they may be your husband or wife, but that doesn't mean they can depict who your friends are, who u hang around with, or who u see. How can u live like that every day? Knowing you can't do anything you want, just because one person says no! Don't get wrapped around their little finger, because as soon as you do, they know they can say anything they want, and you will do it because most of us give in (mostly men). The wives will know they are winning!! But if you stay strong, and stand up for yourself and say NO and do what you want to do anyway, if your husband or wife trusts you, there's no problem. The problem is already there once they start stopping you doing anything. You are strong enough to control and run your own life and not have someone else run it for you.