What is love?

Some people can say, well love is a feeling. Its something inside, an emotion that a lot of people express in different ways. Love is everything. It evolves all around us, everywhere we look and touch. But it can be used within the wrong context. For instance, a guy can say to his female friend who he's known for most of his life and they are not dating, 'Hey, see u tomorrow..love you" where a husband can say to his wife "I am so happy I married you, love you". The context of the word love is misused, and can upset people when used in this way, unless the other party is ok with their partner saying love you to their friend. You can love your friends, but loving your spouse is a different feeling. To some people, it does come across in the wrong way, and friendships can be jeopardized because of that one little word. So when they say it can't be thrown about, they are right. When i say they, I mean people in general..
Love is a when a mother gives birth to a baby for the first time, and time and time after. It is when a flower grows from a seed. Its the passion for work, for school, for anything in life that makes us happy, and to work hard at it. Love is seeing people smiling and laughing with each other. It's having that with someone or something that feels right, and makes u feel good about yourself.

Lust on the other hand, is doing something (i.e sex) that u 'think' u want to do, either to spite that someone else because they have hurt you, or because u just want to and have no valid reason as to why. There is no love, and no connection. Its just sex. But when in a relationship, there can be no Lust. Lust is therefore 'evil' in my eyes, and should not be anywhere in a relationship. When u get married u do so out of love. Because that would hurt it someone just married you out of lust because u looked like an easy catch and all they would want is sex. Well if that's all they wanted, then why get married? U could get that from anywhere u wanted and stay single..
Love actually 'means' something. If you love someone, u will naturally show it. U won't need to force it, or pretend. And people will be able to see from your body language and the way that you are together, that you love each other. You can see it in their eyes..
People have seen me and my husband together and have said how much in love we are with each other and that its so sweet. We don't have to pretend that we are somebody else.

If you find the one you love, and u know that he or she is definitely the one for you, then don't let them go..you may never have the same feelings for another person like you do for them.

Work at it: If things go wrong in a relationship, talk to each other and find out the cause of the anger or the disagreement, or whatever it is in the relationship that's making it not as good as it could be

Tell them that you love them: Even if they already know, its nice to have someone tell you that they love you..

Surprise them: Cook dinner, clean up around the house, sort the children out, wash his clothes, take him out to dinner, or buy him things here and there just because. Text him/her little love notes, or leave little sticky 'i love you' notes around the house or write it on the fridge with letter magnets..Being spontaneous makes life more fun, and if they love you they would be grateful for anything that you did...

Offer to do something for them: This goes to both men and women. Be the loving spouse can also get you brownie points, in the fact that you don't really 'need' to do things for them, but you choose to out of the goodness of your own heart.

Be their best friend: Stand by them, no matter what happens. No matter if they do badly at work, and regardless to whether its their fault or not, you need to stand by them. For better or for worse the vows were. They mean something.....

And one last thing..make them feel like they are the most special thing in the world. That nothing else and no one else matters, and that you will be with them for the rest of your life.
I tell my husband that he is my soul mate, my best friend, and my world. He makes me feel like no other man has made me feel in my life, and that is love, and happiness. And I love him and will love him till the day I die..for the rest of my life..

xxx